5 Inexpensive Ways to Be More Attractive
September 11, 2013 2013-09-17 10:085 Inexpensive Ways to Be More Attractive
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5 Inexpensive Ways to Be More Attractive
Come on… doesn’t it feel so good to get all the attention when needed? So, how do you woo and wow your audience or the world around you; in such a busy world? How do you draw attention without craving for it? Let’s find out…
We are going to use what I call the S.W.O.R.D. formula.
The sword here signifies your authority, gifts & talents, abilities & skills. Every gifted person needs this sword to fight the challenges of life, to succeed, and be more attractive. It’s nothing complex, basically simple, but very effective way to be more attractive.
The great Philosopher, Jim Rohn, stated “To attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself. If you become, you can attract.”
Here you are:
- S ~ SMILE: A smile is a language understood by every tribe, culture and country. It lightens up the darkness in every situation. When you carry a smile always, you become easily approachable, seen as a friendly person and attractive ~ charming! It costs nothing but its benefits are huge. Never dress without one, Smile. SMILE ~ See My Instant Life Energizer.
- 2. W ~ WORDS: Words are spirits and carry life. Use it well and you gain the admiration of many, mishandle it, and then it ruins your reputation. Choose your words wisely. Knowing what to say is as important as how and when to say it. Speech may be silver, silence golden, but wisdom knows when to use what. Your words must be seasoned with salt. Have you ever been so attracted to a person just by words, wise words and the manner of its use? Cultivate the power of the right use of words with right speech tone then you will be unstoppable. “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” Proverbs 15:1
- 3. O ~ ORDER: Anything sequentially, systematically and perfectly done attracts attention. This calls for discipline, a great deal of time and meticulously working on a task, goals and your dreams. You must make delivery of excellence your goal in whatever you do; becoming a person of distinction. “Anything worth doing, is worth doing right.” ― Hunter S. Thompson
- 4. R ~ RESPECT: Anytime you show respect to someone, you honor the person. Having a sword doesn’t make you superior to anyone; it’s rather a tool to serve. Firstly, you must learn to respect yourself, treat yourself well, and then secondly treat others with honor. You respect their time, their opinions, and their religion and believe system. This is one key that opens doors to you. Go out to day to honor others, your parents, the elders, your colleagues and watch favor flowing to your doors. “I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.” ― Albert Einstein
- 5. D ~ DRESS: Your appearance matters a whole lot; key phrase “Man look at the outward appearance”. As much as appearance can be deceptive, on the average it creates the most lasting first impression. You got to dress good, look good and smell good. That in itself boosts your self-confidence. Believe in yourself and what you have. Don’t impress just express the true beauty in you. “Your appearance, attitude, and confidence define you as a person. A professional, well-dressed golfer, like a businessperson, gives the impression that he thinks that the golf course and/or workplace and the people there are important.” ― Lorii Myers
So with your SWORD, you can design and live the kind of life you desire and attract the right people into your life. Go, make it happen!
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I think I'm attractive
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D K Williams-Asumah
Thank you Sir for this one.